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Back in 2006, I traveled to the Australian capital for an interview at a medical college. My plan was I would book a place to stay when I arrived, but upon reaching the city, a large conference was happening and all the budget hostels and budget accommodation had no vacancies.

Coming from the city-state of Singapore, the idea crossed my mind the possibility of just sleep at the airport – but quickly found that airport, in contrast to Changi Airport, does not operate 24 hours. With no idea what my next move should be and getting a bit desperate, I hopped on a bus into town and started wandering in the direction of the casino, believing it was a place to spend the night somewhere that stayed open 24/7. This was not ideal at my peak for nailing an interview the next day, however, being a cash-strapped student, a pricey hotel was out of reach.

We could all use more individuals who show such kindness.

I must have looked out of place since a female student noticed me wandering around the city and inquired if I was OK. I shared my predicament and without hesitation she said I was welcome to sleep on the floor of her dormitory at the local university – an ideal turn of events, given that my the important interview was the following day. She even offered a meal: one sandwiches she had taken home her part-time job. I was able to use the bathroom and somewhere safe and secure to spend the night.

With hindsight, I can appreciate the enormous leap of faith she accepted as a young woman letting a guy who was a complete stranger stay in her room. In those days I existed within my male privilege bubble and did not consider to the potential danger. Now, as a father, it astounds me she did that – and remain very grateful.

I didn’t end up go to the Australian National University, and I didn’t meet her again, but her act remains etched in my mind her selfless deed of generosity. My sincere desire is that karma has returned her good deed tenfold. Our society requires more folks who show such kindness.